furiousgoldfish:

Causing distress
and pain to another person and then focusing on how that person reacts to it,
and criticizing the reaction, as if the reaction and not the abuse is wrong, is
in fact, evil. It’s not helping anyone but the abuser divert attention from
themselves and abuse they’ve just committed. Abusers have no business
criticizing anyone and least of all their victims. Your reactions to abuse were never wrong.

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